LOVE 
1. Stay faithful. It makes your spouse feel confident that he/she is enough
2. Make sexual advances on your spouse. This is for both husband and wife. Wives don’t just sit in bed waiting for him to do all the work
3. Speak highly of the sweetness of her vagina. Speak highly of the goodness of his penis
4. Praise your spouse’s physical looks often
5. Take care of your spouse’s emotions. Make your spouse feel safe in your presence
6. Touch your spouse more. When your spouse feels you can’t keep your hands from him/her, it makes your spouse feel wanted. This is only effective if point number 5 is addressed
7. Grab your spouse unexpectedly and with passion. Grab her butt while she is cooking, hug him from behind when he is from the shower
8. Be naughty and flirtatious. Who else do you expect him/her to flirt with?
9. Brag about your spouse to others. Honouring your spouse is a major turn on
10. Kiss even sex is not the agenda. Make out
11. Notice the efforts your spouse makes to look sexy such as shaving down there, dressing sexy in bed, working out, wearing a nice scent
12. Moan when your spouse is making you feel good when making love. It encourages your spouse to please you
13. Tell your spouse how good you felt after making love and you both are cuddling. Recap the sweet moment
14. Treat your spouse good when sex is not the agenda. Don’t be good and loving only when you want an orgasm
15. Affirm your spouse when your spouse is self conscious and negative about herself/himself or their body. Boost your spouse’s ego
16. Look at your spouse in the eyes often with eyes of focus and desire. Those are the little things that communicate “You are my kind of sexy”
