So many ladies want to get married but aren’t actually ready for it. Here are few things to work on as a lady before you consider a relationship or marriage.
1)Education: Let no man deceive you, this is one of the most necessities ❣️
2) Skills: Please, if you can’t afford education just have handwork, have your own source of income. This economy is not just a one man’s affair.
3) Respect: Without a doubt, men take pride in respect. You must be respectful.
4) Good Company: Show me your friends and I’ll tell you who you are. Keep good friends; friends that will help you grow. Make friends of God’s children.
5) Decency: You must be decent. You don’t need to wear expensive apparels to look pretty. Just dress well.
6) Forgiven Heart: Marriage is a union of two forgivers. You must learn how to forgive easily.
7) Be a Listener: Don’t jump into conclusion; assumptions are not good. Hear the end of the story. Listen to understand and not just to reply. Learn how to communicate.
8) Be Prayerful: This should not be taken for granted. In as much as you desire to be with a prayer partner, put God first and allow him to direct you.
9) Be Contented: Don’t eat the last piece of what you didn’t buy. Be moderate, elegant and smart.
10) Be Intentional: Marriage or relationship should not stop your life. You must be purpose driven. Define your self worth with your character.
11) Go for Knowledge: Yes. Attend conferences, webinars, workshops and read books. It’s not enough to watch tiktok videos and reels oo. An investment in knowledge is priceless.