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5 THINGS YOU MUST NOT ALLOW YOUR FRIENDS/FAMILY DO TO YOUR WIFE (If you want Peace in your Home and Marriage)

1} VERBALLY ABUSE HER.

You and her, you are one, anybody that insults her insults you.

It is foolishness for you as a man to be okay about someone insulting your spouse, just because you feel it’s not you that was insulted,

You are her partner and head, an insult on her is an insult to you.

Never allow anyone mock her, call her names, be it before and behind her, before and behind you,

Make sure you address the issue, do not sweep it under the carpet, address it, however with politeness, but firmness.

If any of uor friends or family members have any issue with her, if they respect you, they will wait and take out their anger on you. Not her.

And allow you handle the issue

2) HIT HER.

No Man should sit back while anybody, family or friend raise their hand to strike his wife.

This is gross irresponsibility.

I’ve even seen Men join their Mother, Sisters to beat up their own Wife,

I’ve seen Men stand by while their Wife’s are assaulted by a friend or family member.

This is Wrong. Only weak men do that

3) INVADE HER PRIVACY

Your matrimonial bedroom should be a no go area for 3rd parties.. Except by MUTUAL agreement,
If Madam is not okay with it, then it should not happen.

That a Man would be with his wife in the room, and anybody, his mother for instance, brother, or best friend will just barge in, not minding if the wife is naked, or they are having an intimate moment, or whatever, that shouldn’t happen.

It’s a slap to her and to you that you can’t have privacy in your own house as a couple.

Her work, Her Passions, your style of doing your marriage, her schedule, her Life, her business is not theirs to attempt to investigate, question, query or alter, its not their business, but yours.

4) UNDERMINE HER AUTHORITY IN HER OWN MATRIMONIAL HOME

This happens a lot in many African homes,

A Man’s family members or friends will come and start dictating what happens, and even go directly against what the Woman in charge of the home has said.

What she decides to cook for you, your mother or sister should not come and say No oh, that is not what their son/brother will eat.

How she decides to discipline the kids she had with you, (except where she is being unnecessarily violent) no other person should come and attempt to authoritatively oppose her.

That a Woman can’t have a say in her own “Husband’s house” because of her husbands family members and friends is a No No.

5) EXERCISE AUTHORITY OVER HER.

It’s pathetic what goes on in some homes, a Woman will leave the village, leave her own house, or husband’s house (if she’s married) , come to her brother’s house and be commanding the Woman there, and nothing will happen.

Some Women have no authority in their Homes.. They can’t decide hat happens there

This should not happen.