11 THINGS MAKES A WOMAN DIFFICULT TO LOVE

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11 THINGS MAKES A WOMAN DIFFICULT TO LOVE

1. YOU’RE ALL ABOUT THE MONEY
When all your concern is money, complaints about money or demands about money your man will be put off whether he has money or not. He will feel all you want from him is financial yet he wants you to see and appreciate the many things he has and brings that money cannot buy.

2. YOU ARE TOO PROUD BECAUSE YOU KNOW YOU’RE BEAUTIFUL
When you are too self-absorbed in your beauty, flirting with other men and getting drunk with the attention you get from many men that you don’t realize how much you are taking your man for granted, just because you think he will not go anywhere because you are so gorgeous; you will tire him. You are beautiful to look at but are you beautiful and respectful to be around? Other men might give you attention, but your man desires to give you affection. Attention doesn’t last, affection does.

3. YOU ARE TOO PROUD BECAUSE OF YOUR CAREER ACHIEVEMENTS
If you feel just because you have accomplished much it gives you the right to talk to your man anyhowly since you earn alot and out there people praise you; your man will feel disrespected. Don’t bring your titles and ego in love. Both man and woman ought to remain humble and respectful .

4. YOU GIVE MIXED SIGNALS
If you are the kind that shows instability and uncertainty, you will discourage your man and make him too cautious. If you are the type who says you want to be with him, then push him away; the type who asks for a divorce and the same time claim you want him; the type who is excited about the love today then doubtful about it tomorrow… your man will hold back to protect himself needing you to make up your mind.

5. YOU PLAY HARD TO GET EVEN WHEN YOU HAVE ALREADY COMMITTED
If you already said yes to being his but you still make it difficult for him to enjoy you, if you make your husband have to beg to make love to you, beg for your time, make it an uphill task to please you; he will get frustrated wondering if he is in this relationship alone .

6. YOU ARE A ONE TOPIC WOMAN
If all you talk about is one thing; perhaps just children, or just domestic demands, or just soap operas, or just fashion and make up, or just sex, or just gossip and complaits; your man will find you less exciting desiring that you stimulate his mind with other conversations, not just the same old.

7. IT IS ALWAYS ABOUT YOU
If you make it all about what you want and what he can do for you, but you rarely care for him, rarely seek to find out how he is, or rarely show interest in what he is about; he will start to feel used and that the relationship is one-sided.

8. YOU ARE NEVER WRONG
If you are the type of woman who doesn’t apologize but expects apologies, the type who doesn’t want to hear the man’s perspective and so he agrees with you just to maintain peace and move on from the issue; he will start to feel less heard and cared for .

9. YOU PUSH PEOPLE AWAY TO TEST IF THEY WILL STAY
If you have a tendency of daring people out of your life by saying mean things or telling them to leave you alone including your man; he will feel like you don’t need him and invest in you less.

10. YOU ARE ARGUMENTATIVE
If you are always looking for a fight and a day or a week cannot go without you taking something small and blowing it out of proportion, your man will avoid you, walking on egg shells for fear of triggering you .

11. YOU HAVE WALLS
If you are the kind of woman who gives your man one word answers or shuts him when he is trying to be there for you or to know you, perhaps because you are used to being alone or you have trust issues; your man will wonder why you are with him, you should have remained single.