LOVE ❤
4 WAYS ON HOW TO KNOW HE IS NO LONGER INTERESTED IN YOU
Love is like a dance. It requires two willing partners moving in sync with one another.
This is me telling you not to be so carried away with the euphoria of the dance and the music you don’t even know that your partner is no longer in the dance with you.
Romantic relationships have to do with rhythm and momentum.
Being alert to the rhythms of your romantic relationship is paramount. It is your responsibility to recognize when your dance partner is stepping back rather than forward.
When he is emotionally but slowly turning down the volume on your favourite song— so subtly, but oh-so surely.
When your partner’s feelings start to fade, there are often noticeable signs that can help you understand what’s going on.
Now, let’s tackle this delicate subject head-on, arming you with the insights to help you spot the tell-tale signs of disinterest, so you can decide whether to stay on the dance floor or graciously bow out.
1. YOUR INTUITION WILL NOT BE QUIET:
As a woman, you have what is called INTUITION inbuilt into you by God. It is that little voice in the back of your mind whispering something’s wrong.
It is your security system. It is like a fire alarm. It helps you to detect impending danger without a practical proof.
That is the superiority of the female intelligence – the ability to know that something is wrong without being able to substantiate it.
Its incredible how that works, but its true!
Tuning into your intuition doesn’t mean jumping to conclusions; rather, it means giving yourself permission to explore those doubts with honesty and courage.
Remember, your feelings are valid—don’t let them be drowned out by the noise of wishful thinking.
2. HE PUTS HIMSELF IN THE BUSY MODE:
When a man is in love, it shows. He is never too busy to forget that you exist. If there is anything he is busy with right now, it is you and his dreams about you.
He will squeeze himself to meet up with your dates and outings, no matter the level of inconvenience.
However, when the frequency of “I’m sorry its work, ohhhh, my boss gave me more work to do so I won’t be able to meet up ” starts to exceed the occasions of shared popcorn, it might be time to tune into what these patterns are broadcasting about your partner’s level of interest.
Pay attention to the quality of the excuses. Is ” Oh, I’m hanging out with the boys” really a compelling reason to cancel dinner plans? Probably not.
Finally, when plans collapse, does he drop the “Let’s reschedule” line or does he just forgets about it altogether?
If you find yourself always initiating plans, or if your text or whatsapp messages are starting to feel like lonely little boats moving aimlessly on the ocean of silence attracting no response or late response, that’s a red flag staring you in the face.
3. HE STOPS CHASING YOU:
A man is a hunter ( in the good sense of the word ). A man is supposed to be the one chasing in a correct relationship and not the other way round.
The more a man is interested, the hotter he chases his love object, in which case is a relationship with you.
However, when he starts slowing down with you. He doesn’t chase you as he used to and you have not been sleeping with him, as a wife should do, things have changed.
4. HE STARTS BEING OBJECTIVE:
Love is not objective. Love is subjective. In fact, love is oppressive ( in a positive sense ). Love is highly flammable. When a man is sincerely in love, he is consumed by his love object.
Ladies, please be sensitive. Whenever he calls you, it must be for something in particular.
He no longer calls you just to hear your angelic voice. He doesn’t call you just because he is missing you again. You might need to take a few steps away from the relationship and re-check what you
call a relationship.
What you call a relationship might be a heart break in the making, waiting for a future day to happen.
Finally, if acknowledges the issues and is ready to actively work towards rebuilding the relationship, it may be worth giving it another chance.
However, if the lack of interest persists or there is a fundamental mismatch in values and goals, it may be time to consider moving on.
Author: Mujuni Henry
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