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6 TOP REASONS YOU SHOULD PLAN YOUR SEX LIFE…

Sex shouldn’t always be spontaneous. Some singles were angry with me when I said sex should be planned in marriage. They feel it must always be spontaneous, hot and sizzling! They believe planning it will make it boring and cold. I don’t blame them. When you haven’t had sex all your life, and you are eagerly and anxiously waiting for it in marriage, you will think sex will always happen anytime, anywhere and anyhow. I used to think like that until the reality of marriage set in.

One of the leading causes of divorce world wide is sexual disparity or sexual problems. No couple start a marriage hoping to have sexual problems. Many marry without planning for sex. They think, once they have strong sexual attraction for each other, every other thing will be bliss! Not always so!

Your sex life can end up boring and forgotten if you don’t plan towards sustaining it.

Here are 6 basic reasons you should plan towards a great, sustainable sex in marriage.

1. YOU WANT NATURAL FAMILY PLANNING METHOD

You must check your calendar, mark the days you are ovulating, days you are free and days you are in between so you can know when to have sex and days not to.

2. YOU HAVE A HIGHLY DEMANDING, STRESSFUL JOB

You need a measure of strength and vitality to enjoy sex. If your job is very demanding leaving little energy to make love, you need to plan days you will have sex so you can minimise stress, take energy boosters, have body massage and whatever you can do to increase your energy level for the task ahead.

3. YOU WORK OVER SEAS OR OUTSIDE THE STATE

You should plan the number of days you will be having sex per week or month so you can find your way home, make the best of your time together and enjoy passionate love making as much as possible otherwise your sex life will be long forgotten and dead!

4. YOU ALWAYS ENGAGE IN PRAYER AND FASTING

This is good. Plan the number of days a week you will be having sex and the number of days you will be free to have sex. Also plan the time and duration to have sex. May religious people blame fasting on their poor sez life, this shouldn’t be so. Lack of planning is the real cause of the problem.

5. YOU HAVE LOW LIBIDO OR LOW SEX DRIVE

You will need to have sex time table so you can prepare your mind towards having a sweet sex Enjoying passionate love making is a mind thing. If you can work your brain towards it by visualizing all day, fantasising all night, flirting and seducing, you will get your energy back. When you know you have some free days and it won’t be sex unexpectedly at all times, you will adequately prepare to give it your best shot and reach orgasm as many times as you want.

6. TO ENJOY SWEET LOVE MAKING

Routine can be so predictable and boring! One of the ways to break routine is to plan for spontaneity. Yes! Spontaneity is planned. To break out of the rut of same sex style, same location, same night wears, plan for adventure. Fix a date, work on the venue, get good sexy underwears, work on your mind and your emotions and libido will follow suit, Flirt with your spouse a day or two ahead, stir their emotions, shower all the praise, encomiums and adoration and watch your bedroom explode in sexual revival.