SEX ISSUES QUESTION TO DEAL WITH BEFORE MARRIAGE

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11 SEX ISSUES QUESTION TO DEAL WITH BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED.

The rate at which people are having serious sexual problems in marriage is alarming! it is much more serious than singles will ever believe. That is why many married couples are covering this up to save themselves unnecessary embarrassment or ridicule.

These problems are created by ignorance or religion. Some were to religious to trash out sexual issues in courtship only to get married and face real shockers they were not taught or counseled to handle!

Singles, you will do yourself some favour by dealing with these issues before you finally say “I do!”

1. TALK ABOUT THEIR PAST RELATIONSHIP
Ask if sex was involved and what led to the sex so you can understand their weakness and how to help them in marriage. Some may confess they have high libido and must have sex every day. Some ladies may say it is financial pressure. This will help you know how to increase your libido or build your financial capacity so they don’t fall into adultery.

2. ASK IF HE/SHE IS A VIRGIN
It will help you know how to prepare for your bride on the wedding night and learn (by reading not by premarital sex) to meet their sexual needs in marriage. Guys who heavily engaged in premarital sex have high libido .(Take note: premarital sex is sin).

3. ASK HOW OFTEN THEY LIKE TO HAVE SEX IN MARRIAGE so you can learn how to match up or slow down.

4. ASK IF THEY BELIEVE IN ANAL OR ORAL SEX so you can know whether to continue with the relationship or quit! Some women don’t know their husbands are into these things till they get married. There are too many sex “shockers’ in marriage.

5. ASK IF THEY WATCH PORN OR LIKE TO WATCH PORN IN MARRIAGE Some can’t have sex unless they watch graphic sexual details in motion.

6. ASK IF YOU WILL BE LIVING APART AFTER MARRIAGE due to your job or ministry and how you intend to cope with your sexual needs while you are both living apart.

7. ASK ABOUT FAMILY PLANNING METHOD
Will it be natural family planning method, condom, pills or injections. Some men will never wear condom or do natural family planning. You are left with either pills, injections or other family planning methods. Talk now to avoid unnecessary arguments/fights in marriage. Some believe you should only have sex when you want to have babies. Talk! So someone won’t develop high blood pressure in marriage!

8. ASK IF HE IS IMPOTENT OR SHE IS FRIGID so you can see a Doctor or marriage counsellor and know how to fix the problem!

9. ASK IF THEY HAVE BEEN MASTURBATING and have issues with premature ejaculation, retarded/delayed ejaculation, delayed orgasm etc so you can see a sex therapist for remedy.

10. ASK HOW OFTEN THEY FAST and if sex will take place during the fast.

11. ASK IF THEY BELIEVE IN DIFFERENT SEX STYLES so you can learn and match up with them.

You need to ask these questions and get the right answers so you can know how to meet their needs IN MARRIAGE or end the relationship if you can’t cope.

One of the reasons we get married is to have sex, anyone who tells you otherwise is under a demonic influence! Satan hates sex! He will do anything to pervert it or make you undermine it and wreck your marriage!

When it comes to sex in marriage, some singles (bless their darling hearts) say “What happened to self control?” Don’t bother to get married if you can control your sexual needs or you don’t have any sexual urge. Stay single. Paul is not talking to you when he says “it is better to marry than to burn” because you are not even burning!

Some women say sex is not food! Men should not expect it so often! I wish your husband can say the same thing. He is probably shaking his head at your ignorance while reading this.

Some men think orgasm for a woman is not compulsory in marriage. As long as he can get his own orgasm, he is okay. Lots of women are now having sexual affairs because their husbands don’t know how to make love to them.