LOVE TIPS ❤
1. When you two are emotionally connected as a couple, it shows in the closeness of your bodies
2. Children can tell that mom and dad are in love or mom and dad are not OK with each other by how close the parents comfortably get around each other
3. If you don’t forgive your spouse or you have a negative opinion about your spouse you will not like being phyiscally close with him/her
4. If you grew up in a family where the parents were rigid and uptight, no showing affection, no hugging; you will either struggle to show affection when you do have a family or be the complete opposite and give your family what you lacked while growing up
5. The skin was created to be touched. If you are very guarded about your skin being touched by your spouse, then most likely you have built an emotional wall around yourself and don’t want to let anyone in
6. Hugging, cuddling, touching, bumping of shoulders, holding hands, stroking, placing of legs on top of your spouse’s, close intimate walks, hugging from behind are all part of body language that communicates “I am close to you, I trust you”
7. Some people repel warm body language from their spouse because they are self-conscious. Perhaps they don’t feel beautiful enough, or they feel their breath stinks, or they feel not as attractive, or they feel they smell in their private area or they are too sweaty. Sometimes your spouse might repel you because you exhibit the above factors. Sort this out; love your look, be confident, brush your teeth often, shower often, seek treatment if need be, invest in good perfumes/colognes
8. If the only time your bodies are close is during sex, then you two are not that emotionally close. Invest in intimate conversations and relax around each other
9. If your spouse’s body language towards you is warm at home but cold out in public, it could be because your spouse is either not proud of being with you or too concerned about what people will think. Love in private and in public
10. When you are not comfortable with your spouse, your body will avoid your spouse. You will deliberately come home late, constantly make yourself busy or make plans, walk away when your spouse sits next to you, avoid sitting next to your spouse in public including in Church, deliberately go to bed later than your spouse, opt not to go to work with your spouse yet you leave at the same time, avoid events that your spouse is going to and you become a loner in your marriage. This is an indicator of some issues not being resolved. Stop sweeping things under the rag, address them
11. Warm body language heightens sexual intimacy. When your bodies are so used to each other when sex is not the agenda, you two will find it extremely easy and pleasurable to give your bodies to each other when love making is the agenda
12. If you grew up in a home where people were not close, unlearn this before it negatively affects your connection with your spouse and children. Just because your parents lived a certain way does not mean it was right. Shape your destiny
13. When you die, one of the things your loved ones will remember you for is how you made them feel through the warmth of your body language. Don’t be cold, you don’t have forever to live on earth, live your brief life giving warmth
14. If you find yourself getting close to someone of the opposite gender besides your spouse and you easily channel warm body language with the person; be careful, you might get used to that body language and it grows into an affair. Go learn that body language with your spouse
15. When you are having an affair, your body language towards your spouse will most likely become colder. This is because your body is channeling warmth somewhere else. This sudden change is what makes people start suspecting their spouse
16. Don’t deny your spouse a warm body language. Don’t let your spouse feel lonely in marriage. Learn to express love
17. The bodies can communicate love in a manner that words cannot. A warm body language makes you both secure.
Author: Mujuni Henry
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