LOVE TIPS
- If you don’t, your spouse might be tempted to receive compliments from another and that is how some affairs start. Don’t create a vacuum
- You are the one who knows your spouse best, you have more information to give substance to your compliments
- Your relationship was formed through compliments, your marriage will be sustained by compliments that make your spouse feel special
- To show your spouse you have not changed. You still are focused on him/her
- To boost your spouse’s self esteem. It is your role to make your spouse feel good about himself/herself
- To show your spouse you are noticing what is good about him/her. Most times spouses only speak when they are pointing out negatives
- As you highlight what is good about your spouse, your spouse will be encouraged to keep possessing those good qualities. Compliments are motivators
- As you speak of what is good about your spouse, you will appreciate your spouse more. You can’t have a positive attitude towards someone who all you see is their wrong
- Compliments evoke smiles, lessens tension, creates the right mood and reduces arguments
- Giving compliments will not make your spouse proud, but rather, make him/her feel valued
- Compliments will inspire your spouse to keep looking good for you and seeking to impress you
- Giving compliments is a form of foreplay, it leads to deeper and richer intimacy
