- GOING TO SLEEP IN KIDS’ OR SPARE BEDROOM OR SITTING ROOM WHEN THEY HAVE A MISUNDERSTANDING :
This is a sign of avoidance and unwillingness to resolve conflicts. A mature partner would stay and work through the issue, rather than running away from it. It’s being childish.
- TELLING HER HUSBAND AS NOT MAN ENOUGH:
This is a form of emotional abuse and undermines the partner’s self-esteem. A mature partner would communicate constructively about issues without personal attacks. Very few men can survive this injury.
- “THERE ARE MANY MEN OUT THERE WHO CAN MARRY ME WHEN I LEAVE THIS MARRIAGE”:
This is a threat and a form of emotional blackmail. A mature partner would address problems in the relationship directly and work towards a solution.
- BEING QUICK TO GET angryY ABOUT EVERYTHING:
Excessive anger and overreaction to minor issues is a sign of immaturity. A mature partner would respond with more patience and understanding.
- CAN’T JUST FORGIVE, KEEPS HURTS IN HIS OR HER HEART:
Holding onto grudges and resentment is a barrier to healthy conflict resolution. A mature partner would be able to forgive and move forward.
- ALWAYS BEING RIGHT , UNABLE TO ADMIT BEING WRONG :
Lack of humility and unwillingness to compromise is a sign of immaturity. A mature partner would be open to different perspectives and willing to acknowledge their own mistakes.
- LOVING PARENTS AND SIBLINGS MORE THAN SPOUSE:
This indicates a lack of emotional investment in the marriage and a failure to prioritize the spousal relationship.
- FEELING ENTITLED TO EVERYTHING:
A sense of entitlement and unrealistic expectations is a sign of immaturity. A mature partner would have a more balanced view of the give and take in a relationship.
- FIGHTING SPOUSE’S FAMILY DIRTY:
Engaging in petty conflicts and disrespecting the spouse’s family is a sign of immaturity. A mature partner would strive to maintain positive relationships with in-laws.
- ISSUING THREATS OF DIVORCE , SEPARATION, OR VIOLENCE:
These are manipulative and abusive tactics that have no place in a healthy, mature relationship.
- THINKING THEY ARE TOO IMPORTANT IN THE LIFE OF THEIR SPOUSES:
This indicates a lack of understanding of the importance of mutual respect and independence in a marriage.
- BRAGGING ABOUT WHAT SHE IS DOING TO SUPPORT THE HUSBAND:
This suggests a need for external validation and a lack of genuine concern for the partner’s well-being.
- GETTING MUTE ON THE HUSBAND JUST BECAUSE HIM LOOKED AT ANOTHER WOMAN AT THE MALL
If she caught her husband looking at a woman and appreciating her looks when they were together at a shopping mall, she stops talking to her husband for months, stops cooking his favorite meal and can’t even sleep on the same bed with him.
- DARING HER HUSBAND TO GET ANOTHER WOMAN AS IF SHE DOESN’T CARE.
Daring a man to get another woman is not only childish but dangerous, because not every husband is a believer.
- RESENTING KIDS BECAUSE HUBBY HID THEM FROM HER
When she discovers that her husband hid the fact that he had a child/children before meeting her, she immediately resents those kids.
Author: Mujuni Henry
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