1: LOWER YOUR VOICE
Don’t shout at her, she is just like your baby. I know that women can be stubborn sometimes, but as a matured man, you should know how to correct your wife without yelling or causing a scene.
2: DO IT IN LOVE
Correction should be done in love. I believe that when a person is being corrected through the art of love, rather than violence, he or she quickly learns from their mistakes.
3: DON’T CRITICIZE
Stop criticizing her, rather correct in love.
4 PRAISE HER FOR WHAT IS RIGHT
It will be wrong to correct when it’s not well done, when you don’t praise when it’s well done.
5 DON’T DO IT BEFORE YOUR CHILDREN
Avoid correcting your wife in the presence of your children. Children get nervous and emotionally unstable whenever they see their parents yelling, quarreling or fighting each other.
6 DON’T CORRECT HER IN THE PUBLIC
This does not prove your Manhood but low mentality and will lower her self-esteem. You can always draw her in and talk to her in a way to will feel okay.
7 AVOID CORRECTION IN ANGER
Don’t correct her in anger, shouting, ranting, beating and making trouble. Correcting her in anger won’t let her learn anything rather than just having fear of you and that’s bad.
8 DON’T COMPARE HER WITH ANY OTHER WOMAN
“Don’t you see what your friend is doing?” Can’t you learn from our neighbors wife?”
Comparing her with other women doesn’t make her to get better or get improved rather it kills her self esteem and create jealousy and hatred within her heart.
9 AVOID REFERRING TO OLD ISSUES
Avoid referring to issues discussed and settled. Stick to the present issue. Try your possible best not to bring back the wrongs things she did in the past.
It makes her to feel unease knowing that you haven’t forgotten her wrongs no matter how hard she tries to please you.
10 DON’T ATTACK HER WOMANHOOD
“And you call yourself a woman..?” This is very wrong,
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