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Men make lots of these mistakes in bed and it’s really important we always talk about until these mistakes become a thing of the past.

I had to write about this after a reader sent a message complaining about the mistakes her man keeps making in bed and how he won’t learn.

Keep on reading dear fans to see the common mistakes men make in bed

1. QUIET DURING SEX

Most men are guilty of this and most if not all women don’t enjoy the annoying silence from their man during lovemaking. When you are quiet in bed, you make her wonder if she’s really pleasuring you. Show your woman you enjoy every bit of her while making love to her.

2. CONCLUDING WOMEN LOVE IT ROUGH IN BED

Most men think women always want it hard and rough in bed. This is so wrong. No woman wants to leave the bed in serious pains and in need of medical attention. Though women love it rough sometimes, it’s important she consents to wanting it rough. Even when she says she wants it rough, it’s also important you don’t take it too far.

3. APPLYING FORCE ON THE CLITORIS

Applying too much force on the clitoris is another common mistake men make. The clitoris is extremely sensitive and you need to go easy with it.

4. NOT BEING SENSITIVE TO HER WANTS

When in bed with your woman, try to be sensitive to her wants. Don’t just pound until you cum. Learn to understand her wants in bed and use it as a guide. It’s important you are sensitive to her wants and not your wants.

5. NOT USING THE FINGERS CAREFULLY

Don’t use your fingers like you forgot something inside of her. Your finger isn’t a joystick so stop using it as one. It’s really sad to see men finger their spouse with the vigour reserved for lovemaking.

6. RUSH FOREPLAY

Rushing foreplay is so wrong. Take it slowly and enjoy every part of your woman. A well-paced foreplay leads to a more fulfilling sex. Take your time and don’t appear too desperate. So take it gently and hardly on he dis night. Enjoy yourself.