- Stop Giving Your Number Out To Every Dick & Harry! It makes you look cheap!
No man would want to propose marriage to a lady whose phone is always talking and laughing with unserious calls. You may not be a playgirl, but he would judge you as one, and will likely flee at the slightest chance!
- Excessive makeup turns most decent and serious-minded men off- if you have observed, you will discover that most men dislike excessive makeup!
A slight makeup is okay; try always to look simple and natural, it will attract better, decent and serious-minded men, except you are still living in your high school life and not thinking towards marriage.
- Don’t Give Everything Out During Dating- As a single lady who has not been taken to the altar, you need to reserve some things for your husband to be, especially your body, respect it and preserve it at all cost.
In the past, men rushed to marry to get certain things or privileges they had been constantly denied while being single. Such privileges include: sex and companionship, good food and tidied home, etc.
But today, a single man gets even the best and of course more of constant sex, good food and excellent home- keeping more than his married counterparts, so tell me how the hell you want him to desire to marry you when you have given him virtually everything he desires from a wife while being his girlfriend? so why would he not want you to remain his girlfriend for life?
- You Package Yourself Wrongly- in your attempt to look sexy, adorable and maybe appealing to guys, you have derailed from appealing to appalling.
In fact you look more whorish than modest; more distractive than attractive, and more disgusting than adorable. Your dressing style determines who gets attracted to you most times. If you dress high school, only high school-thinking guys will be attracted to you, and if you dress seductive and provocative, only randy men will come to you for urgent satisfaction of their immediate sex urge, so don’t be fooled by media hyping of certain kinds of dressing, they are meant for certain set of ladies you wouldn’t like to be associated with, be careful. Remember, not all clothes are good for you!
- Many African ladies now dislike cooking and home chores just because they had been totally brainwashed by movies showcasing men playing the role of women in a family, and due to excessive exposure to modern media that promotes gender-equality in a destructive way that’s aimed at destroying the unique African family setting that made our previous African marriages everlasting and envious to the westerns. Learn to cook good food apart from indomie noodle, your husband is not a baby! It is a shame to you when your husband still visit various restaurants after your wedding!