- The person will be thoughtful and considerate about your needs, not just theirs
- The person will seek to know who you are and celebrate who you are without wanting to impose change in you
- The person will be consistent in treating you right
- The person will not change how he/she treats you when you don’t give them what they want – sex, money, a meeting
- The person will respect your boundaries
- The person will hurt when he/she disappoints you or offends you
- The person will make an effort to treat you better when he/she falls short
- The person will invest in communication with you
- The person will not come to your life to stop you from making spiritual, professional or academic progress but to encourage you to grow
- The person will also make room for you to love on them
- The person will be patient with your growth
- The person will not see being there for you is doing you a favour and rubbing it to your face. He/she will bless you without keeping records
- The person will be excited about your achievements, you will not be competitors
- The person will make it clear to you how important you are to them
- The person will rather reconcile with you quickly than hold grudges
- The person will not only correct you with love, but also welcome your correction in case he/she does what you perceive is wrong
- The person will not force issues if you are not comfortable with it
