Understand that until you are seen, found and loved, marriage won’t happen.
Here are some tips therefore on how to position yourself:
1. Make yourself seeable and foundable. Some ladies and guys are too hidden to be seen or found.
Note that the person that would marry may not be from your church, compound or immediate environment.
So, hangout once a while by yourself, travel for weddings, good birthday celebrations, market, visit your siblings schools etc.
2. Appears your age. No one wants to marry his or her mother nor father. Look decent and your age.
3. Be good at what you do. Whether in church, work, business etc, be committed, dedicated and good at what you do. It is key to attracting a relationship.
4. Love and appreciate yourself. If you don’t love you, who would?
5. Maintain a healthy self esteem. It attracts like magic.
6. Be happy and wear a smiling face always.
7. Be humble and respectful.
8. Be trust worthy; people are looking for people they would trust with their lives.
9. Develop yourself; people are looking for people who can How
10. Be honest in your dealings. Dishonestly has killed a lot of relationships and intentions.
11. Forgive easily when offence happens. People fear people who won’t forgive. You sure needs a lot of forgiveness in marriage.
12. Make yourself approachable. Don’t allow people to be affraid of talking or making their intentions known to you.
Hear them out and give a either yes or no answer as the case maybe.
I know you desired and deserved to be married but please…. position yourself properly. There must be seeing and finding before marriage.
I am not equally saying you should just be everywhere carelessly and throw yourself to everyone everywhere. 2024 is your year.
