There are many sex positions. Experiment. Try them. You are to be married for years to that one person, have variety between you two
Your Godliness is not determined by your sex position. You are not more Godly just because you as a married couple do one sex position than other married couples who do several
Sex positions are all about two things: The visual display of your spouse in a manner that excites you (for example, some men prefer doggy style because they love the look of the butt) and the stimulation on the penis and the vagina (for example, some women would feel a different sensation during missionary than during wheelbarrow because of the positioning and angle of the penis as it rubs inside the vagina)
It is a crime to stay for years with your spouse without knowing his/her favourite sex position
If you did discover your favourite sex positions perhaps with your ex/exes before finding your spouse, communicate how you like it to your spouse with this information. Make it easy for your spouse
Don’t pretend you are enjoying love making yet there are certain sex positions you would like to experiement with your spouse
Just because you had a sexual past doesn’t mean your sexual taste is fixed. Open up your mind to new experiences with your spouse, you might end up liking new sexual positions
Moaning informs your spouse that the sex position is enjoyable to you
As long as both of you are open and comfortable with it, experiment on new sex positions. Don’t be monotomous. Don’t be rigid. Spice up your marriage
When your spouse declines to try out a sex position you suggest, respect him/her, keep the love going, be affectionate still, don’t go looking for someone outside the marriage to explore with
When the wife is pregnant, you can still explore sex positions that are comfortable for her. In fact, many couples are most creative during this time
Mombasa Raha, Doggy style, Missionary, Wheelbarrow, Kifua ya mende.. There are lots of sex positions, you two can form your own and even call them your own unique names
Some women prefer missionary because of the eye contact, it makes them feel special. Some prefer cow girl because it makes her feel she has more power and control
Some sex positions keep the man erect for longer because of the view he has of the woman’s body. Erections work with visuals, moaning sounds and penis tip stimulation
Sex positions can also be great work outs. Sometimes the gym you need are acrobatic sex positions that make you sweat
Sex positions are an eventful experience. If the experiences are good, you will keep coming back for more from each other
Don’t limit yourselves to the bed. You can use the floor, the carpet, the shower, the seat to explore
Don’t lose the desire to sexually please each other in marriage. It is unfortunate when you are married but have great desire to explore sex positions with another person, not your spouse
Whenever you two try a new sex position, review it. Tell each other how it was so that you know if you drop it, keep doing it or improve on it
Remember you have a limited time to enjoy each other’s body before menopause and aging checks in. Make memories now to look back and remember in old age
