If you don’t want to end up in hot tears and regrets, take this message seriously.
A lady chatted me up sometime ago.
She came for me to counsel her concerning her relationship.
She told me that she was in a relationship with a guy who was planning to come meet with her people.
But there was an issue, the guy wanted to have sex with her for some reasons…
He wanted to get pregnant before coming to see her people.
He wanted to be sure that they can satisfy each other sexually.
It was in this confusing situation the lady was when she came for counseling.
She didn’t know what to do.
I counselled her that it was wrong for her to get pregnant for a guy before marriage.
Pregnancy is meant to happen ONLY within the confines of marriage, not before or outside.
Moreover, there was no guarantee that the guy was going to marry her if she got pregnant.
The guy may just wanted to have sex with her and dump her.
She thanked me and we ended the session.
Yesterday, I counselled another lady who had fallen victim of what I want to caution you about now.
If only she had known.
If you don’t want to end up in hot tears and regrets or as a single mother you didn’t plan for, take this advice seriously
- 𝑫𝒐𝒏❜𝒕 𝒈𝒆𝒕 𝒑𝒓𝒆𝒈𝒏𝒂𝒏𝒕 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒂𝒏𝒚 𝒎𝒂𝒏 𝒃𝒆𝒇𝒐𝒓𝒆 𝒎𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒊𝒂𝒈𝒆
Biblically speaking, it is a sin to get pregnant before marriage.
Pregnancy is meant to happen in marriage only.
Most men do this because they want to know if you are fertile or barren.
Don’t fall for this.
There is no guarantee that they will marry you after getting pregnant.
This was how many ladies end up as single mothers they didn’t bargain for.
If your guy wants to know if you’re fertile or not, he should take you to the hospital not his bed.
What happens after trying to get you pregnant and you didn’t become pregnant?
It is marriage before pregnancy, not the other way round.
Don’t complicate issues for yourself, avoid pregnancy before marriage.
- 𝑫𝒐𝒏❜𝒕 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒔𝒆𝒙 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒂𝒏𝒚 𝒎𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒊𝒔 𝒏𝒐𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒉𝒖𝒔𝒃𝒂𝒏𝒅.
I cannot stop stressing this fact, you cannot keep a man who doesn’t want to stay with sex.
Give him all the sexual positions, he will not stay.
One of the ways to know a guy who is serious about getting married to you is to close your legs, don’t have sex with him, tell him to wait after marriage.
Sex is your bargaining power in a relationship because you’re the gatekeeper. Except in cases of rape, you’re the one who determines who have sex with you.
When you cheaply give it out without marital commitment, you have given away your power.
This is one of the reasons why many ladies feel cheated, used and dumped after having sex with a man and they end up not getting married to them.
Sex before marriage is a sin.
That is fornication.
Close your legs.
Honour God in your relationship.
- 𝑫𝒐𝒏❜𝒕 𝒍𝒊𝒗𝒆 𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒔𝒂𝒎𝒆 𝒉𝒐𝒖𝒔𝒆 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒂 𝒎𝒂𝒏 who 𝒉𝒂𝒔 𝒏𝒐𝒕 𝒑𝒂𝒊𝒅 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒃𝒓𝒊𝒅𝒆 𝒑𝒓𝒊𝒄𝒆.
As a lady, you are only permitted to live with a man after he has paid your bride price.
Cohabiting before marriage is a sin, it devalues you as a lady.
It extends your days of getting married.
If I can get what married people are enjoying, why do I need to marry you.
Statistically, people who cohabit before marriage have little chance of having a successful marriage.
So, make up your mind that you will not live with a man who hasn’t paid your bride price.
Even if the man has done something small on your head, that’s not an excuse to start living with him.
Wait until he finishes doing things on your head.
Respect and value yourself.
- 𝑫𝒐𝒏❜𝒕 𝒂𝒍𝒍𝒐𝒘 𝒂𝒏𝒚 𝒎𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒉𝒐 𝒊𝒔 𝒏𝒐𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒉𝒖𝒔𝒃𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒆𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒏𝒂𝒌𝒆𝒅𝒏𝒆𝒔𝒔.
No man, except your husband, is permitted to have sex with you or to see your nakedness.
Only your legally married partner has the legitimate right both to have sex with you and to see your nakedness.
Author: Mujuni Henry
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