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Why you’ll still remain single or unmarried for long is because of the so called ideal woman or man in your head. Let me tell you so fast, you’ll never find a person perfectly as you have assume in your head. You’ll never find someone exactly as you’ve pictured in your mind.

All of those list in your head doesn’t exist. It’s like Nollywood movie love (Trailer jammed him and he stood up and still went after her again and again because he loves her and it continues like that, and like that, my dear, this is not real) wake up from drama, this is reality.

You can’t find someone as you’ve pictured in your head. Something must be missing. Something will absolutely will not be right in that person there. Know this and settle it and not prolong your days looking for what you can’t find.

I made a research of all the great men and women around us today and I was aware that many didn’t marry who they’ve thought they would’ve married to have a beautiful or a great life, many didn’t marry that fellow they’ve thought they would’ve, yet they’re with a beautiful and glorious destiny today.

My dear rest from tall dark and handsome that’s making you lose good people coming to you daily. Uncle rest from “if she’s not figure 8 I will never marry that fellow” you can get figure 8 with an empty brain anyway with a touch of frustration too.

My dear, overlook some of the made believe ideal spouse you’re looking for and focus on the prospect of the individual. Wisdom, intellect, passion to purpose, the fear of God, morally sound etc.

Destiny values over beauty.

Their are many beautiful faces with ugly soul.

Choose who will help your destiny over straight legs.

Choose hot brain over sexy body.

An empty brain with the whole of the beauty of this world will frustrate you.

You can’t find a complete list of who you think exist in your brain. Marry destiny needs over physical beauty and this is why many planned to marry from Oxford university and later end up with Laspotech. Yeah, they later understood the most essential need of marriage which is beyond beauty.