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In this year that promises a lot of marriage bells for the unmarried, it is important to know how to be positioned, found and loved.

Understand that until you are seen, found and loved, marriage won’t happen.

Here are some tips therefore on how to position yourself:

1. Make yourself seeable and foundable. Some ladies and guys are too hidden to be seen or found.

Note that the person that would marry may not be from your church, compound or immediate environment.

So, hang out once in a while by yourself, travel for weddings, good birthday celebrations, market, visit your sibling’s schools etc.

2. Appears your age. No one wants to marry his or her mother or father. Look decent and your age.

3. Be good at what you do. Whether in church, work, business etc, be committed, dedicated and good at what you do. It is key to attracting a relationship.

4. Love and appreciate yourself. If you don’t love you, who would?

5. Maintain a healthy self-esteem. It attracts like magic.

6. Be happy and wear a smiling face always.

7. Be humble and respectful.

8. Be trustworthy; people are looking for people they would trust with their lives.

9. Develop yourself; people are looking for people who can How

10. Be honest in your dealings. Dishonestly has killed a lot of relationships and intentions.

11. Forgive easily when an offence happens. People fear people who won’t forgive. You sure need a lot of forgiveness in marriage.

12. Make yourself approachable. Don’t allow people to be afraid of talking or making their intentions known to you.

Hear them out and give a either yes or no answer as the case may be.

I know you desired and deserved to be married but please…. position yourself properly. There must be seeing and finding before marriage.

I am not equally saying you should just be everywhere carelessly and throw yourself at everyone everywhere. *This is your year. Get ready.