- When was the last time I did something special for my spouse?
- Do I make it easy for my spouse to talk to me about anything?
- When my spouse is not near me, am I still a good spouse or do I only behave well when I know my spouse is watching?
- The things my spouse complains about me, if I put my ego aside, do they have merit?
- Am I giving my spouse the best of me sexually?
- Do I know my spouse’s dream in life and what have I done or am I doing to support it?
- Have I changed for the better or for the worse?
- Before I expect my spouse to enjoy my company, would I enjoy my own company?
- Is there any good treatment I am withholding from my spouse because I am waiting for my spouse to do the right thing? If yes, why am I conducting my marriage in a tit for tat manner?
- Before I see the wrongs in my spouse, am I able to identify my own wrongs?
- Is there anything about my spouse I have not forgiven?
- Is there a wrong my spouse knows I have committed I have not apologized for?
- When was the last time I spoke to my spouse with a kind, gentle tone?
- Do I criticize my spouse more than I celebrate him/her?
- If my spouse was to die today, will he/she know how much I love them?
