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1) ATTENTION

Yes, Attention, Women flourish on attention

Call her daily, call her for no reason, call her just to hear her voice,
Text her, Visit her, Take her out. Sit down and gist with her Play Ludo or scrabble with her.

Don’t make her fight for your attention, other wise, you’ll make her feel unloved, she’ll begin to doubt your love, and you may end up losing her.

(2) AFFECTION/INTIMACY

Study her and speak her love language
Let her see the affection even if she closed her eyes.

She craves your love, (except it’s your money she’s after.)

Every woman wants to be intimate with her, husband except she doesn’t love him or she has given up on the Marriage.
Stop being unromantic, and spend some quality intimate moment with your Wife at home, just playing with her hair and cuddling.

(3) YOUR LOVE VOCALIZED

If you are in a Relationship or Married, ask your wife or fiancee, if she’ll ever get tired of hearing “I love you” from you,

You know the answer already, they never get tired.

Speak the Love daily let her HEAR it

Write it down as letters, let her READ it.

(4) PAMPERING

A Woman wants to be spoilt, no matter her age, Pet her.

Be gentle with her. She’s not a Man,

Be patient with her (especially when mood begins to swing).

Cuddle and pet your Wife like tata (little baby)

Spoil her with your money, get her gifts, even as God blesses you.

(5) HONESTY AND OPENNESS

Most Men find it difficult to be honest and open with their feelings to their wives, unknown to them Women crave this more.

A woman wants to know her husband, his fears, his weakness, his secrets and truth,.

Trust her with them, she wants you to be “naked” to her and not ashamed, then she feels safe and free to reciprocate, trust him with her own secret and her everything, .

(6) FINANCIAL SUPPORT

You were thinking i wouldn’t mention this?
No way.

Even if she were a millionaire, your money means more to her than hers.

Every Woman wants the financial support and backing of her husband or fiance to feel loved, forget Ndi “feminists” oh.

(7) COMMITMENT

Yes, Women desire commitment.

If they love you, they want to marry you.

If they marry you, they want children.

They always seek deeper connections,

They want you to keep to your words, commit to your promises, be there for her, for the kids, do right by your family.
Be Responsible…

(8) LEADERSHIP

No, she’s not lost.

No, she’s not clueless or stupid,

She can as well lead herself,

Remember : When she decides to become your wife and accepts your being her head, she voluntarily allows you play that role.
So step up. Spiritually and otherwise.