1) DESPERATION
“I’m getting old, Man na Man”
“Any THING that comes, I’ll marry, I will MANAGE, let me just first see MARRIAGE”
From the Marriage, they enter Damage and after a while, we start hearing stories that touch the esophagus.
When Desperation enters the building, Discernment exits.
2) FOR LOOKS/FANTASY
You think real life is Instagram and Pinterest?
When a Lady wants to marry a guy SIMPLY BECAUSE he is good looking and dresses well (their couple pictures will be peppering everybody online) without discerning beyond looks.
“The Man I will marry must look like my Korean crush”
Lee Min-ho.
Now you have married your Lee Min-ho, Happiness and Peace of Mind haf leave you.
Now you’re in counselors office crying.
My Dear,
Leave Me oh.
.
.
You married a fine Man without character to pepper us online.
Now the fine Man is peppering you offline.
You pepper Singles and Married online and go home to be peppered offline.
Manage your Pepper, let us manage our Pepper.
3) For Money and Fame
When they now divorce you after many years, you and your fans will say ALL Men are Scum.
Choices will always have Consequences.
4) To Please their Family
To make Mama and Papa Happy, many enter into d.ead-on-arrival relationships and marriages, to pay the family bills (bills you didn’t create, poverty that isn’t your making) you want to marry an obviously bad man.
My Dear, let Mama not be angry, she go try manage sadness small.
When you die tomorrow, that same family you’re marrying wrongly to please and to help will move on.
