LOVE 
1. ATTEND TO HIS/HER EMOTIONAL NEEDS
Emotional connection leads to sexual connection. Don’t ignore your spouse and expect fireworks in the bedroom
2. LOOK VISUALLY APPEALING
Wear what excites your spouse, look yummy. If you will be naked, be confident in your nakedness. Observe good hygiene too
3. BE A FLIRT
Let your spouse have a naughty partner in you. Have no taboo sexual topics. Be cheeky and kinky in your conversations
4. AVOID TURNING DOWN YOUR SPOUSE’S ADVANCES
When you make your spouse feel rejected, this will make him/her desire you less
5. BE A TEASE
Be playful, dance for your spouse, touch your spouse, rub your spouse. Make your spouse feel desired
6. SATISFY YOUR SPOUSE SEXUALLY
When you do so, your spouse will keep coming back for more. Don’t make it all about you
7. SPEAK TO YOUR SPOUSE WITH RESPECT
No matter how sexy you look or how skillful you are in bed, disrespect is a turn off
8. DO IT YOUR SPOUSE’S FAVOURITE SEX POSITION
Make your spouse’s fantasies come to life
9. BE CREATIVE
Spice things up, do things differently, travel to somewhere new and get it on there. Make it a sexual adventure
10. GIVE YOUR SPOUSE FEEDBACK WHEN HE/SHE DOES YOU GOOD
When your spouse kisses you, holds you, pleases you, licks you, rubs you or makes love to you well; let him/her know. It motivates your spouse to keep targeting your body
11. BE FAITHFUL
The thought of you giving your body to another will push your spouse away, but faithfulness will make your spouse long for you
