WHAT PEOPLE WANT TO HEAR AFTER MAKING LOVE

LOVE TIPS ❤

1. “I LOVE YOU”
Saying these words makes your spouse feel special and assuring him/her that the love making was done in the name of love, not just because you were horny

2. “THAT WAS BEAUTIFUL”
This builds the confidence of your spouse. When he/she knows that you enjoyed it, he/she will look forward to making love to you more

3. “I HAD MISSED YOU”
This shows your spouse that you long for him/her, that you had missed the touch and the intimate time you two spend together. It makes your spouse feel needed

4. “NO ONE MAKES ME FEEL LIKE YOU DO”
This makes your spouse feel like he/she gets you, it reminds your spouse that the connection is strong and this means alot to you

5. “HOLD ME”
Nothing is sweeter like holding and cuddling after love making. Don’t be in a rush to leave your spouse or turn the other side to sleep. Hold each other even if just for a few minutes as you speak heart to heart

WHAT PEOPLE DON’T WANT TO HEAR AFTER MAKING LOVE

1. “WHY DID YOU SCREAM SO LOUD?”
Don’t criticize your spouse’s moan, you will kill the libido for future love making sessions. Allow your spouse to enjoy and express pleasure without judgement

2. “NOW WHO IS GOING TO CLEAN UP THESE SHEETS?”
The mess you make on the bed together should not be something to frown upon. Don’t be complaining or you will kill the sex life. Sheets can always be washed but once you lose the sexual fire it is difficult to get it back

3. “WHO TAUGHT YOU THAT SEX POSITION?”
When your spouse introduces a new sex position, don’t take it as proof of him/her learning it from someone. So many people are scared of experimenting sexually with their spouse because they will be accused of cheating. Embrace newness in your romance. Explore

4. “DID YOU SHOWER TODAY?”
When you criticize your spouse for the smell of her vagina or sweat on his body, you will make your spouse feel embarrassed and discourage future love making. Never say anything that shames the same person you expect to give you pleasure

5. “DID YOU PAY THE SCHOOL FEES?”
Do not introduce irrelevant topics right after love making, it cheapens the intimacy. That time is not the time to talk about chores, responsibilities, business, money, your parents or to gossip about others but the time to nurture your bond

6. “LET ME REPLY TO A MESSAGE”
Don’t be quick to jump to your phone right after love making to write an email, reply to a text or go online to read posts, it makes your spouse feel used as if you were waiting for the climax to reach so that you can continue doing what is important to you