- Food rejection:. You are the owner of the food and the food was prepared in your house. Yet, you reject it. This is too babyish
- Keeping Malice : If there is a misunderstanding, settle it with your wife rather than keeping malice.
- Constant outburst of anger. Unchecked anger which makes you call your wives all sorts of names and say unprofitable things like threats of divorce, separation, beating, is not an attribute of a real man.
- Not supporting their wives at home. More than 80 percent of African men do not raise a finger at home to do any house chores, care for the baby, help the children with their home works, attend Parent Teachers Association (PTA) meeting or carry the baby when crying. When asked the reason for such negligence, he is likely going to say one or more of the following:
I am the head of this family
“My father never did it for a woman”
“In our culture, men dont do anything at home
“My wife will begin to take men for granted if I help her at home
“She will disrespect me if I do.
It is not manly to do.
I make the money, let her do the cooking.
I am too busy.
I dont know how to cook.
What will the neighbors say when they see me doing something for her, etc. - Reporting their wives. It is inappropriate to report your wife to your friends, colleagues, neighbours, family members, whenever there is a misunderstanding. You should be mature enough to handle your own family.
- Wife battering. One of the worse things a man can do is to beat a woman he claims to love and promised to protect. Any man who beats his wife is a beast. Grow up and give your lovely wife peace of mind.
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