Neglect β The same couple that spent all their dating time together grows apart after the wedding day. The neglect is usually subtle, though which is the way the enemy often works.
Sin β We canβt get around this one. Regardless of what the sin is, disobedience that weakens oneβs relationship with God also weakens our relationship with our spouse.
Blame β Thatβs what Adam did in the Garden, and what we often do. When itβs not my fault, I donβt have to worry about changing. My spouse does.
Selfishness β Too often, couples commit themselves to one another until βdeath does us partβ during the wedding ceremony, but then live as if the other doesnβt exist.
Secrets β Anytime weβre hiding anything β especially from our spouse β the enemyβs winning in some way. Honesty breaks the enemyβs strongholds.
Anger β Many of us have lived this experience. Uncontrolled, unleashed anger can destroy the bond between husband and wife.
Prayerlessness β A couple that does not pray together misses an opportunity to strengthen their marriage. In fact, their prayerlessness says they can handle marriage without Godβs help.
Pornography β Increasingly, both males and females struggle with this sin that reduces human beings to an image and implies that our spouses arenβt good enough for us.
Financial fights β That happens especially when we live for wealth and security, most often doing so at the expense of spending quality and quantity time with our spouse.
Offspring trouble β From Genesis 4 (Cainβs killing Abel), the enemy has attacked our children. Too often, their struggles result in conflict between mom and dad.
Adultery β As Satan often does, he magnifies the temporary pleasure of sin over the devastating long-term effects of crossing that line. Families then pay the price for our bad choices.
Divorce β Even with the exception clauses of Matthew 19, we cannot conclude that God ever delights in divorce. The enemy does.

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