WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR SPOUSE HAS A HIGH OR LOW LIBIDO

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Several factors causes libido to peak or take a downward plunge.

As your wife enters forty and is more confident about her body especially what easily turns her on and excites her, her sex desire peaks while yours plunges at forty.
The stress of raising children can kill a woman (in her thirties)’s libido while her husband’s desire peaks because pregnancy, breast feeding and child raising makes her body more beautiful and desirable leaving her husband in regular sexual arousal.
As the man reaches forty and financial responsibility increases, the demand to work more to generate income may deflate a man’s libido while the wife peaks because his ability to provide turns her on.
Huge age gap can cause a sharp disparity in libido. I.e. A forty years old woman in marriage with a sixty years old man.
Highly outgoing men/spouses (e.g) most times have a higher sex drive than their quiet, introverts partners.

Etc.

HOW DO YOU HANDLE THIS?

Talk about your desire and how often or regularly you want to have sex.
Have a sex timetable so the one with low libido can come up while the one with a high libido can control themselves till the next date for sex. SEX timetable helps you plan and think ahead for sex.
Assist your man financially to reduce financial stress which may deflate his erection.
Assist your wife with chores to reduce stress which may make her get too tired to have sex
If you have a low libido and use time table, fantasize about your partner all day, wear seductive clothes and prepare your mind and body for the fun ahead.
If you are too tired to have sex to avoid being drained after ejaculation, you can bring her to orgasm through heavy foreplay targeting her most erogenous zones! Once you put out the sexual fire, both of you will have rest and sound sleep!