1. She speaks to him with caring tone
2. She gives him peace
3. She doesn’t compare him with other men ; she inspires him to be the best version of himself
4. She doesn’t shout or scold him as if he is incompetent
5. She doesn’t belittle him when he is down or going through loss
6. She corrects him lovingly private; away from the children and the public
7. She doesn’t announce to people the things she has done for him and how he would be nothing without her
8. She brings attention his few weakness without forgetting his many many strengths.
9. She doesn’t give him silent treatment to punish him
10. She doesn’t say hurtful things just because she is mad
11. She acknowledge his good traits in private and in the public
12. She doesn’t do mean things to teach him a lesson
13. She suggests instead of ordering
14. She doesn’t treat him well only when the pastor or in-laws watching. Her treatment is consistent not a show.
15. She gives him room to lead and participate; involving him in coming up with the decision
