So many ladies want to get married but aren’t actually ready for it. Here are few things to work on as a lady before you consider a relationship or marriage.

1)Education:
Let no man deceive you, this is one of the most necessities ❣️

2) Skills:
Please, if you can’t afford education just have handwork, have your own source of income. This economy is not just a one man’s affair.

3) Respect:
Without a doubt, men take pride in respect. You must be respectful.

4) Good Company:
Show me your friends and I’ll tell you who you are. Keep good friends; friends that will help you grow. Make friends of God’s children.

5) Decency:
You must be decent. You don’t need to wear expensive apparels to look pretty. Just dress well.

6) Forgiven Heart:
Marriage is a union of two forgivers. You must learn how to forgive easily.

7) Be a Listener:
Don’t jump into conclusion; assumptions are not good. Hear the end of the story. Listen to understand and not just to reply. Learn how to communicate.

8) Be Prayerful:
This should not be taken for granted. In as much as you desire to be with a prayer partner, put God first and allow him to direct you.

9) Be Contented:
Don’t eat the last piece of what you didn’t buy. Be moderate, elegant and smart.

10) Be Intentional:
Marriage or relationship should not stop your life. You must be purpose driven. Define your self worth with your character.

11) Go for Knowledge:
Yes. Attend conferences, webinars, workshops and read books. It’s not enough to watch tiktok videos and reels oo. An investment in knowledge is priceless.

12) Always remember you’re the image of God.