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9 DIFFERENT TYPES OF SEX IN MARRIAGE

1. RECONCILIATION SEX:- Sex is a most potent weapon for diluting and difusing misunderstanding in Marriage. If you don’t use SEX to settle some stubborn crisis, then you are missing out and not maximising it. In addition when you both settle a misunderstanding, the person at fault could initiate sex as a way to make up to the other who was on the receiving side of the conflict.

2. HEALING SEX:- There are some sicknesses and diseases that are cured by good Sex I mean very good Sex. Healing sex is gentle, it is full of grace and elegance. You don’t rush it. Mbanu. You do it softly and it hits the bull’s eye. Please Husbands, don’t throw your weight on her if it’s for healing, let the bed carry your weight 100%.

3. PUNISHMENT SEX:- When I counsel couples, are times I hear spouses say “Since he did that, I decided to punish him by depriving him of sex”, or “since she refused me, I decided not to touch her again”. That is as senseless as saying “since my child failed a Test, I punished him by withdrew him from school”. It’s foolishness. The wise thing to do is to give your spouse more sex as punishment rather than depriving him or her. When your husband or wife misbehaves, correct them using sex. That is the best punishment. Not slapping or fighting or public disgrace. Punishment sex is very hot. 😷

4. MEMORABLE SEX:- This is a very special kind of sex that you organise and plan for. Every couple must be doing this once in a while. Honeymoons should be organised at least once is a quarter (once in 3 months). If you have means, do it once a month. You book a hotel for say 3-7 days and retreat to help build your marriage. A kind of Intimacy Retreat. You mustn’t go to hotel if you can’t afford it. Just send the kids somewhere and make it memorable. Light Candles around and on the blue or green bulb. Use good perfume and the Angels will bear you witness.

5. QUICK SURPRISED SEX:- This is a sex that married couples should do often to build their love life. One “Quickie” is stronger than 100 Love Charms from India or oshogbo. A Quickie is that very fast sex that a couple does in ODD places or in ODD position. Usually one spouse surprises the other with it. You don’t take formal permission quickies. You just start it just like that. MARRIAGES WITHOUT QUICKIES HAVE QUICK PROBLEMS AND BREAK QUICK. Spouses who don’t believe in surprise sex are analogue and expired. Quickies can be done in the car. Drive her to a corner and pretend as if the car didn’t start. It can take place on kitchen sink or at the balcony or inside swimming pool or in garden.

6. EXERCISE SEX:- This type should happen frequently especially in the mornings. God did it that the male organ wakes up in the morning erect to greet it’s Owner – the Wife. So as much as humanly possible, let every wife answer the morning greeting. God’s mercies are New Every Morning. Great is His Faithfulness. Mercy and Faithfulness are co-joined twins.

7. ENCOURAGEMENT SEX:- You use this type of Sex to encourage your Spouse to do something or Not to do something. There are times he wants to do something that you think is not the best of decision, just come in the most seductive way and delay him. When he is exhausted after you have drilled him, speak softly and he will say “I didn’t know that was what you were saying before, now I understand you”.

8. REWARD SEX:- This is the type that you reward your spouse for achieving something unique or for exceeding expectations. Reward Sex is not just one round but extended over a period of time. Reward Sex is an open check to do whatever he or she loves. It’s extra ordinary.

9. PROCREATION SEX:- This is sex you do purely for pregnancy. When you need child, the best style is the one that gives the husband maximum penetration. Support your wife with pillow is you aren’t a longman. But you must make sure it is as wet as wetness can be. Sperm needs wetness to swim inside the womb. When he releases he must remain inside there for a few minutes. Don’t pull fast.

Continue Reading9 DIFFERENT TYPES OF SEX IN MARRIAGE

1. RECONCILIATION SEX:- Sex is a most potent weapon for diluting and difusing misunderstanding in Marriage. If you don’t use SEX to settle some stubborn crisis, then you are missing out and not maximising it. In addition when you both settle a misunderstanding, the person at fault could initiate sex as a way to make up to the other who was on the receiving side of the conflict.

2. HEALING SEX:- There are some sicknesses and diseases that are cured by good Sex I mean very good Sex. Healing sex is gentle, it is full of grace and elegance. You don’t rush it. Mbanu. You do it softly and it hits the bull’s eye. Please Husbands, don’t throw your weight on her if it’s for healing, let the bed carry your weight 100%.

3. PUNISHMENT SEX:- When I counsel couples, are times I hear spouses say “Since he did that, I decided to punish him by depriving him of sex”, or “since she refused me, I decided not to touch her again”. That is as senseless as saying “since my child failed a Test, I punished him by withdrew him from school”. It’s foolishness. The wise thing to do is to give your spouse more sex as punishment rather than depriving him or her. When your husband or wife misbehaves, correct them using sex. That is the best punishment. Not slapping or fighting or public disgrace. Punishment sex is very hot. 😷

4. MEMORABLE SEX:- This is a very special kind of sex that you organise and plan for. Every couple must be doing this once in a while. Honeymoons should be organised at least once is a quarter (once in 3 months). If you have means, do it once a month. You book a hotel for say 3-7 days and retreat to help build your marriage. A kind of Intimacy Retreat. You mustn’t go to hotel if you can’t afford it. Just send the kids somewhere and make it memorable. Light Candles around and on the blue or green bulb. Use good perfume and the Angels will bear you witness.

5. QUICK SURPRISED SEX:- This is a sex that married couples should do often to build their love life. One “Quickie” is stronger than 100 Love Charms from India or oshogbo. A Quickie is that very fast sex that a couple does in ODD places or in ODD position. Usually one spouse surprises the other with it. You don’t take formal permission quickies. You just start it just like that. MARRIAGES WITHOUT QUICKIES HAVE QUICK PROBLEMS AND BREAK QUICK. Spouses who don’t believe in surprise sex are analogue and expired. Quickies can be done in the car. Drive her to a corner and pretend as if the car didn’t start. It can take place on kitchen sink or at the balcony or inside swimming pool or in garden.

6. EXERCISE SEX:- This type should happen frequently especially in the mornings. God did it that the male organ wakes up in the morning erect to greet it’s Owner – the Wife. So as much as humanly possible, let every wife answer the morning greeting. God’s mercies are New Every Morning. Great is His Faithfulness. Mercy and Faithfulness are co-joined twins.

7. ENCOURAGEMENT SEX:- You use this type of Sex to encourage your Spouse to do something or Not to do something. There are times he wants to do something that you think is not the best of decision, just come in the most seductive way and delay him. When he is exhausted after you have drilled him, speak softly and he will say “I didn’t know that was what you were saying before, now I understand you”.

8. REWARD SEX:- This is the type that you reward your spouse for achieving something unique or for exceeding expectations. Reward Sex is not just one round but extended over a period of time. Reward Sex is an open check to do whatever he or she loves. It’s extra ordinary.

9. PROCREATION SEX:- This is sex you do purely for pregnancy. When you need child, the best style is the one that gives the husband maximum penetration. Support your wife with pillow is you aren’t a longman. But you must make sure it is as wet as wetness can be. Sperm needs wetness to swim inside the womb. When he releases he must remain inside there for a few minutes. Don’t pull fast.

15 THINGS YOU SHOULD NOT BELIEVE ABOUT YOUR WIFE

1. Don’t believe that your wife is a mistake in your life

2. Don’t believe that you can go far in life by neglecting your wife

3. Don’t believe that you can cheat on your wife & go scot-free.

4. Don’t believe that you did your wife a favour by marrying her.

5. Don’t believe that sex with your wife will destroy your anointing.

6. Dont believe that sex with another woman is better than sex with your wife.

7. Don’t believe that your wife is your slave.

8. Don’t believe that your wife’s opinion does not count in your life and your family success.

9. Don’t believe that your wife knows nothing.

10.Don’t believe that there is something in the body of another woman that is not in the body of your wife except you are looking for your early grave.

11. Don’t believe your wife has all it takes to raise your children alone.

13. Don’t believe that the best way to correct your wife is to beat her.

14. Don’t believe that your wife is so strong that she does not need your help, attention and affection.

15. Don’t believe that God is not aware of how you are treating your wife.



Continue Reading15 THINGS YOU SHOULD NOT BELIEVE ABOUT YOUR WIFE

1. Don’t believe that your wife is a mistake in your life

2. Don’t believe that you can go far in life by neglecting your wife

3. Don’t believe that you can cheat on your wife & go scot-free.

4. Don’t believe that you did your wife a favour by marrying her.

5. Don’t believe that sex with your wife will destroy your anointing.

6. Dont believe that sex with another woman is better than sex with your wife.

7. Don’t believe that your wife is your slave.

8. Don’t believe that your wife’s opinion does not count in your life and your family success.

9. Don’t believe that your wife knows nothing.

10.Don’t believe that there is something in the body of another woman that is not in the body of your wife except you are looking for your early grave.

11. Don’t believe your wife has all it takes to raise your children alone.

13. Don’t believe that the best way to correct your wife is to beat her.

14. Don’t believe that your wife is so strong that she does not need your help, attention and affection.

15. Don’t believe that God is not aware of how you are treating your wife.



So many ladies want to get married but aren’t actually ready for it. Here are few things to work on as a lady before you consider a relationship or marriage.

1)Education:
Let no man deceive you, this is one of the most necessities ❣️

2) Skills:
Please, if you can’t afford education just have handwork, have your own source of income. This economy is not just a one man’s affair.

3) Respect:
Without a doubt, men take pride in respect. You must be respectful.

4) Good Company:
Show me your friends and I’ll tell you who you are. Keep good friends; friends that will help you grow. Make friends of God’s children.

5) Decency:
You must be decent. You don’t need to wear expensive apparels to look pretty. Just dress well.

6) Forgiven Heart:
Marriage is a union of two forgivers. You must learn how to forgive easily.

7) Be a Listener:
Don’t jump into conclusion; assumptions are not good. Hear the end of the story. Listen to understand and not just to reply. Learn how to communicate.

8) Be Prayerful:
This should not be taken for granted. In as much as you desire to be with a prayer partner, put God first and allow him to direct you.

9) Be Contented:
Don’t eat the last piece of what you didn’t buy. Be moderate, elegant and smart.

10) Be Intentional:
Marriage or relationship should not stop your life. You must be purpose driven. Define your self worth with your character.

11) Go for Knowledge:
Yes. Attend conferences, webinars, workshops and read books. It’s not enough to watch tiktok videos and reels oo. An investment in knowledge is priceless.

12) Always remember you’re the image of God.

Continue ReadingSo many ladies want to get married but aren’t actually ready for it. Here are few things to work on as a lady before you consider a relationship or marriage.

1)Education:
Let no man deceive you, this is one of the most necessities ❣️

2) Skills:
Please, if you can’t afford education just have handwork, have your own source of income. This economy is not just a one man’s affair.

3) Respect:
Without a doubt, men take pride in respect. You must be respectful.

4) Good Company:
Show me your friends and I’ll tell you who you are. Keep good friends; friends that will help you grow. Make friends of God’s children.

5) Decency:
You must be decent. You don’t need to wear expensive apparels to look pretty. Just dress well.

6) Forgiven Heart:
Marriage is a union of two forgivers. You must learn how to forgive easily.

7) Be a Listener:
Don’t jump into conclusion; assumptions are not good. Hear the end of the story. Listen to understand and not just to reply. Learn how to communicate.

8) Be Prayerful:
This should not be taken for granted. In as much as you desire to be with a prayer partner, put God first and allow him to direct you.

9) Be Contented:
Don’t eat the last piece of what you didn’t buy. Be moderate, elegant and smart.

10) Be Intentional:
Marriage or relationship should not stop your life. You must be purpose driven. Define your self worth with your character.

11) Go for Knowledge:
Yes. Attend conferences, webinars, workshops and read books. It’s not enough to watch tiktok videos and reels oo. An investment in knowledge is priceless.

12) Always remember you’re the image of God.

SIGNS THAT YOU ARE TAKING YOUR PARTNER FOR GRANTED

1. YOU DON’T APOLOGIZE
If you care about your partner, it will hurt you when you hurt your partner. Doing wrong and not caring is a sign you take your partner for granted.

2. YOU DON’T FORGIVE
If you value your partner it will be easy to forgive, make up and get back to loving. The longer you allow a wrong to drag the more it shows you take your remorseful partner for granted and value more your pain. True partners hate fights, they reconcile quickly

3. YOU INSULT
You cannot hurl insults at someone you value

4. YOU MAKE FUN OF YOUR PARTNER
When you take your partner for granted you make him/her the subject of your jokes and make fun of your partner’s body, mistakes, shortcomings and thoughts without caring how much it hurts

5. YOU CONSTANTLY COME HOME LATE
If you deny your partner the most intimate moment of your time, constantly staying away from your own home to spend time with friends shows you take your partner for granted and detest your partner’s presence

6. YOU HEARTLESSLY BREAK PROMISES
If you go against your word and it’s not a big deal to you, you take your partner for granted

7. YOU DON’T LOOK YOUR SPOUSE IN THE EYE
One of the easiest ways we naturally behave when we despise our partner is suddenly avoiding eye contact showing that partner is not worthy of attention

8. YOU DON’T RETURN YOUR PARTNER’S MISSED PHONE CALLS
If you really cared to know what your partner wanted to say you would call back or make contact as soon as you can

9. YOU MOCK YOUR PARTNER IN PUBLIC
When we undervalue our partner we join the public in laughing at our partner

10. YOU DON’T BOTHER TO CHANGE
If you cared about your partner’s feelings you would change, become better and stop doing things that hurt or unsettle your partner

11. YOU FIND IT HARD TO SAY “I LOVE YOU”
Saying I love you is easy when the relationship is at its peak but as you progressively start to take your partner for granted, it reduce.

Continue ReadingSIGNS THAT YOU ARE TAKING YOUR PARTNER FOR GRANTED

1. YOU DON’T APOLOGIZE
If you care about your partner, it will hurt you when you hurt your partner. Doing wrong and not caring is a sign you take your partner for granted.

2. YOU DON’T FORGIVE
If you value your partner it will be easy to forgive, make up and get back to loving. The longer you allow a wrong to drag the more it shows you take your remorseful partner for granted and value more your pain. True partners hate fights, they reconcile quickly

3. YOU INSULT
You cannot hurl insults at someone you value

4. YOU MAKE FUN OF YOUR PARTNER
When you take your partner for granted you make him/her the subject of your jokes and make fun of your partner’s body, mistakes, shortcomings and thoughts without caring how much it hurts

5. YOU CONSTANTLY COME HOME LATE
If you deny your partner the most intimate moment of your time, constantly staying away from your own home to spend time with friends shows you take your partner for granted and detest your partner’s presence

6. YOU HEARTLESSLY BREAK PROMISES
If you go against your word and it’s not a big deal to you, you take your partner for granted

7. YOU DON’T LOOK YOUR SPOUSE IN THE EYE
One of the easiest ways we naturally behave when we despise our partner is suddenly avoiding eye contact showing that partner is not worthy of attention

8. YOU DON’T RETURN YOUR PARTNER’S MISSED PHONE CALLS
If you really cared to know what your partner wanted to say you would call back or make contact as soon as you can

9. YOU MOCK YOUR PARTNER IN PUBLIC
When we undervalue our partner we join the public in laughing at our partner

10. YOU DON’T BOTHER TO CHANGE
If you cared about your partner’s feelings you would change, become better and stop doing things that hurt or unsettle your partner

11. YOU FIND IT HARD TO SAY “I LOVE YOU”
Saying I love you is easy when the relationship is at its peak but as you progressively start to take your partner for granted, it reduce.

RULES OF DATING SOMEONE’S WIFE

1. Never take photos with her.

2. If you called and she hangs up, don’t call her back, the husband is around.

3. Don’t text her love messages.

4. Satan should not tempt you to sleep at her house even when her husband is out of the country.

5. Never book the same lodging every time you go for fun.

6. Do not involve your friends or her friends in your relationship.

7. If she calls you, receive but don’t answer fast. Maybe her husband is the one calling trying to find out, let her talk first.

8. Don’t call her my everything, he is borrowed. Stolen goods are the sweetest.

9. If you find yourself at her place, just lift the dress or lower the trousers halfway during voting. Don’t remove everything. In case things go wrong and you need to activate temple run.

10. Most Important. STAY AWAY FROM SOMEONE’S WIFE AND FIND YOUR OWN .!

Continue ReadingRULES OF DATING SOMEONE’S WIFE

1. Never take photos with her.

2. If you called and she hangs up, don’t call her back, the husband is around.

3. Don’t text her love messages.

4. Satan should not tempt you to sleep at her house even when her husband is out of the country.

5. Never book the same lodging every time you go for fun.

6. Do not involve your friends or her friends in your relationship.

7. If she calls you, receive but don’t answer fast. Maybe her husband is the one calling trying to find out, let her talk first.

8. Don’t call her my everything, he is borrowed. Stolen goods are the sweetest.

9. If you find yourself at her place, just lift the dress or lower the trousers halfway during voting. Don’t remove everything. In case things go wrong and you need to activate temple run.

10. Most Important. STAY AWAY FROM SOMEONE’S WIFE AND FIND YOUR OWN .!