LOVE ❤
1. AFFAIRS
Nothing makes your spouse stop wanting to make love to you like finding out you are having an affair. Your spouse will be too disgusted and hurt by you to desire you
2. UNRESOLVED ISSUES
If you keep running away from addressing the issues your spouse is raising, your spouse will struggle to give you his/her body
3. BAD ATTITUDE
No matter how sexy you look and how amazing your sexual game is, your spouse will not want you sexually if you are rude, difficult, disrespectful, entitled and stressful
4. EMOTIONAL ABUSE
If you keep telling your spouse hurtful words and don’t seem to care, your spouse will hold back his/her body. It is difficult to surrender your body to someone who hurts you
5. NEGLECT
If you act like you don’t bother about your spouse, you ignore your spouse all day and for weeks only to remember your spouse when you are horny; your spouse will not be sexually interested in you, you chose to be a stranger and reduced your spouse to loneliness
6. CRUDE WORDS
If you are the kind of person who uses vulgar language… “I want to “F*ck you”, “Give me that p*ssy”, “Suck my d*ck”; but your spouse finds this indecent and cheapening of love making, your spouse will be turned off
7. “KNOW IT ALL” MINDSET
Love making is about learning your spouse. If you act as if you know everything about sex and your spouse tries to show you how he/she likes it but you bring your ego to bed; your spouse will switch off
8. LACK OF HYGIENE
Love making involves a lot of body fluids and the use of senses. If you are the type who doesn’t shower, doesn’t shave to neatness, doesn’t brush your teeth, wears the same underwear for days and smells of sweat; your spouse will struggle to desire you
9. POOR VISUAL STIMULATION
If you don’t bother about how you look. You care more about how you dress in public but at home you wear worn out branded T-shirts, out-dated underwear, filthy stokin on your head and discolored boxers; your spouse might not be excited for you
10. MOCKERY OF HIS/HER BODY
If you talk badly about your spouse’s weight, height, stomach, stretch marks, complexion, curves or lack there of, breasts, legs, penis, vagina, clitoris, butt… Don’t expect your spouse to be so willing to give that body to you
11. YOUR EX
If you keep entertaining your ex and not paying attention to the discomfort this brings to your spouse, forget about a healthy sex-life. Why are you allowing your past to affect your present and future?
12. SECRETS
If you don’t inform your spouse where you are from, if you keep things from your spouse, act suspicious and become overly defensive with your phone, if you no longer give your spouse information and disappear frequently, your spouse will start to trust you less. Lack of trust is a major turn off
13. ALCOHOL/ DRUGS
If your habits put off your spouse, you come home drunk, misbehave, smell of booze, miraa and cigarettes, lose yourself; this can easily turn off your spouse
14. YOUR FRIENDS
If your friends are the kind that your spouse is uncomfortable with and your spouse is right because these friends are misleading you, using you and wasting your time and money but you are in denial; your spouse might make love to you but not enjoy it
15. SEXUAL SELFISHNESS
If during sex it is all about you and your spouse’s needs and pleasure don’t matter, your spouse will be so fed up with sex. You might get your climax but your spouse is unhappy. You will notice because your spouse will rarely make sexual advances on selfish you
16. INSENSITIVITY
If you show utter disregard for your spouse’s thoughts, feelings, suggestions, ideas and expectations in marriage; your spouse will be so fed up with you. People find someone who makes them feel like a life partner attractive
17. BAD FINANCIAL MANAGEMENT
If you keep messing up with family finances and have a don’t care attitude about your irresponsibility, your spouse will be too hurt to even care to have sex with you
18. FLIRTING WITH OTHERS
If you are the type who chats with others sexually, lust after others, stays up till late flirting as your spouse is waiting for you in bed, deleting messages and call logs of your chat mates and then when you get caught you say “It’s just flirting, it’s not like I am sleeping with them”… Your spouse will be so offended to want to be touched by you
19. PHYSICAL ABUSE
If you physically harm your spouse, beat or slap him/her up, throw things at your spouse; your spouse will feel too unsafe and hurt to give himself/herself sexually
20. FORCEFUL SEXUAL DEMANDS
If you want to have sex with your spouse by force and make your spouse feel like a slave, having sex with your spouse regardless of how your spouse feels, forcing your spouse to do sexual things that he/she is not comfortable with; your spouse will detest making love to you
Author: Mujuni Henry
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