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SIGNS THAT YOU ARE TAKING YOUR PARTNER FOR GRANTED

1. YOU DON’T APOLOGIZE
If you care about your partner, it will hurt you when you hurt your partner. Doing wrong and not caring is a sign you take your partner for granted.

2. YOU DON’T FORGIVE
If you value your partner it will be easy to forgive, make up and get back to loving. The longer you allow a wrong to drag the more it shows you take your remorseful partner for granted and value more your pain. True partners hate fights, they reconcile quickly

3. YOU INSULT
You cannot hurl insults at someone you value

4. YOU MAKE FUN OF YOUR PARTNER
When you take your partner for granted you make him/her the subject of your jokes and make fun of your partner’s body, mistakes, shortcomings and thoughts without caring how much it hurts

5. YOU CONSTANTLY COME HOME LATE
If you deny your partner the most intimate moment of your time, constantly staying away from your own home to spend time with friends shows you take your partner for granted and detest your partner’s presence

6. YOU HEARTLESSLY BREAK PROMISES
If you go against your word and it’s not a big deal to you, you take your partner for granted

7. YOU DON’T LOOK YOUR SPOUSE IN THE EYE
One of the easiest ways we naturally behave when we despise our partner is suddenly avoiding eye contact showing that partner is not worthy of attention

8. YOU DON’T RETURN YOUR PARTNER’S MISSED PHONE CALLS
If you really cared to know what your partner wanted to say you would call back or make contact as soon as you can

9. YOU MOCK YOUR PARTNER IN PUBLIC
When we undervalue our partner we join the public in laughing at our partner

10. YOU DON’T BOTHER TO CHANGE
If you cared about your partner’s feelings you would change, become better and stop doing things that hurt or unsettle your partner

11. YOU FIND IT HARD TO SAY “I LOVE YOU”
Saying I love you is easy when the relationship is at its peak but as you progressively start to take your partner for granted, it reduce.